People get too serious about sex. There should be more laughing, don't you think? When I had sex for the first time, I was drunk on my ass. How about you? In fact, when I think back, I was drunk the first time I had sex with each of my lovers. Sober sex is a whole different ball game. The first relationship I was in after I got sober was so intense. But as much as we lusted after each other, we didn't rush into bed. Now, I am really glad. The relationship ended abruptly when she couldn't handle the way her feelings had completely tilted her world. She felt unhinged by how much she loved me so quickly. Then she became ill with MS. Then, I don't know what came next. I think she fell off the wagon and then moved in with someone. Anyway, people should laugh more.